Islamic
Weddings Follow Religious Traditions
by Ruben Adams
Islamic weddings follow all the traditional religious customs,
which have been laid down in their holy book. The most important
part of the wedding among two Muslims will begin with the
nikah ceremony. This is important because it is the time when
the social contract is made between the Muslim bride and groom.
At this time, it is not even important for the Muslim girl
to be present. She can be represented by her guardians at
this ceremony. The Muslim groom then gives the gifts to the
bride's side. If they wish so, the gifts can be given at a
later time with the mutual consent.
The wedding customs for the Muslims will also
include an engagement ceremony, called the Mangni. In this
ceremony, the groom's family provides a dress for the bride,
and the Muslim couple exchange rings. The customs of the Muslim
culture stresses upon various restrictions when it comes to
marriage. Though the Muslim families and supposed to invite
all the people they know for the wedding, they must not take
extra effort to spend money and bring people from faraway
places. They have to spend within their limits, and they should
not borrow money to conduct a wedding.
A lot of Western traditions have become a
part of Islamic marriages, and they should not make this part
of their traditions. One such tradition is displaying the
bride on stage. The bride is not meant to be for public display,
and she is supposed to be covered well too. She cannot display
any parts of her body to the guests who are present at the
Muslim marriage. The Muslim bride's family too, must not indulge
in spending too much for the feast that they will want to
hold after the marriage. It is only the duty of the Muslim
bridegroom's family to have a feast or Walima, and invite
all friends and family members for the feast.
The nikah ceremony must also never be delayed
in a Islamic wedding, after the engagement has taken place.
At the wedding, the guests must also remember to give gifts
to the married Muslim couple only within their means. The
gifts must also be bought within their means. The couple must
also not make a show of receiving the gifts, and neither must
the guests, as they give it. The gifts in Islamic weddings
must also be of use to the couple after their marriage.
During the wedding ceremonies, the couple
is not allowed to meet. They must also not meet after their
engagement. They can only see each other after the entire
wedding ceremonies are complete. Islam highly stresses upon
a Muslim girl or boy getting married as soon as they reach
a particular age. If the father of the bride is a religious
figure, he may also perform the nikah ceremony, and it is
considered legal in the Muslim marriage customs. All Muslim
weddings are conducted in the presence of a lot of family
members and friends.
About the Author
Islamic weddings - All weddings are conducted in the faith
of God, and with the mutual consent of the couple.
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