by Groshan Fabiola
Once upon a time there was a jewelry store owner that had a precious
pearl that he loved very dearly. He showed it off in the shop's
window and made sure it was visible for everyone that passes by.
He kept it on the shop's window so that everyone can enjoy the beautiful
pearl. One day this man realized he had very little money and that
he would have to sell the pearl so that he can keep his job. He
was sure the pearl would sell very fast because it had been complimented
many times and many eyes and minds were set on it. However one day
followed another and no one seemed to show any interest in the pearl.
The shop owner wondered why is it that no one seemed to want the
pearl after everyone seemed to adore it. So one day he walked into
his store and decided that he would find out why no one is buying
the pearl or sell it. So every time someone walked into the store
he offered them the pearl, but no one seemed to want it. So then
he asked one of the customers that had always admired the pearl
why it is that no one -even him- wanted it, the customer's answer
was that everyone had seen this pearl every single day and sure
it was a beautiful pearl but day by day that amazed feeling you
get when you see something so gorgeous faded away and that it was
pretty to look at but when you actually want to buy something so
precious you want it to be specially for you and not shown to everyone
that walks by.
And that is the reason why Islam commands women
to wear the veil. Because it counts women as a pearl that should
be kept protected and only shown to those who are worthy of seeing
such beauty. So Muslim women wear the Hijab not to hide their beauty
but to preserve the Fitnah - bad deeds- that ruins society and destroys
happy homes.
However, there are certain rules that should be
considered while wearing Islamic clothing; for example what you
dress in mustn't be tight or fitting or see-through. Of course it
should cover the Awra -places in the body that shouldn't be shown-
which is for women in front of all men except their fathers, brothers,
sons, uncles, father-in-law, husband, and nephews. Islamic clothing
is loose because if it was tight it would describe the body features
which is pointless.
There is always a false idea about the Hijab in
the western culture. This idea suggests that Muslim women are oppressed
and forced to cover their selves. That idea however is false because
most Muslim women actually choose to wear the scarf. In fact Muslim
women are treated very well, they have the choice to work and not
to work, if they chose not to their father brother or husband is
commanded to support them financially and emotionally. Muslim women
all over the world feel very respected and pleased.
However, even though Islamic clothes are modest
they could also be elegant and chic. It could describe your personality
like any other normal piece of clothing would.
So if anyone asks why you would wear the veil and
hide your beauty you tell them you are Muslim and proud of it and
that you are not hiding your beauty but you are saving for the person
that deserves it the most and like the pearl you are the perfect
choice for someone that is actually serious about you.
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